THE MEN’S CIRCLE
Men Need Spaces to Connect — This Is One of Them
The Men’s Circle is a monthly in-person gathering in Charlotte for men who want to meet other good men, slow down, and reconnect to what matters most — integrity, presence, and community.
Why We Gather
Many men today don’t have anywhere outside of work or family where they can truly connect. No locker room. No tribe. No circle of men they can trust.
After leading a men’s book club for the past three years, I’ve seen how powerful it can be when men commit to real conversation.
But there’s something different about being face-to-face — seeing each other, sharing stories, and practicing presence together.
The Men’s Circle was created to bring that connection back into the room.
What to Expect
We’ll meet once a month for about 2.5 hours at a venue in the Elizabeth neighborhood of Charlotte.
45 minutes of connection – arrive after work, grab some pizza and a drink, and meet other men.
90 minutes of facilitation – guided conversation, simple practices, and honest reflection in a confidential setting.
You don’t need to have it all figured out — just a willingness to show up and engage.
(This isn’t therapy. It’s a space for real men to connect, learn, and grow.)
Who It’s For
Whether you’re married or single, thriving or rebuilding — this is a space for men who are ready to:
Build genuine friendships with other growth-minded men
Practice presence and emotional honesty
Learn to connect with themselves and others with integrity
Be part of something bigger than just “talking about it”
If that resonates, you’re in the right place.
Our Next Gathering
📍 Location: Charlotte (exact venue shared upon RSVP)
📅 Date: Wednesday, November 20, 2025 (5:45–8:00 PM)
🍕 Food & Drinks: Provided — come straight from work
💬 Facilitated by: James Traub, Certified Divorce Coach® & Men’s Relational Leadership Coach
Participation is free through 2025 as the community grows, with plans to transition into a paid experience in 2026.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Each gathering blends conversation, reflection, and simple embodiment practices. You won’t be put on the spot or asked to share more than you’re comfortable with — but you’ll be invited to engage honestly.
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No. The Men’s Circle stands on its own. Some men join both, others just attend the circle.
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No. While it can feel therapeutic, this is not group therapy. It’s a facilitated experience for men who want to grow in awareness, connection, and presence.
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Typically 10–20, depending on the month. The circle is intentionally kept small enough to stay personal.
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Yourself. Comfortable clothes, an open mind, and a willingness to participate. Food and drinks are provided.
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No cost through 2025. The Men’s Circle is free as we grow the community, and will transition to a paid model in 2026.
Ready to Learn More?
If this resonates, let’s connect for a quick 15-minute conversation.
I’ll share more about the Men’s Circle, answer questions, and help you decide if it’s a fit.
About James
James Traub is a Certified Divorce Coach® and Men’s Relational Leadership Coach based in Charlotte, NC. He’s facilitated groups for the last 3 years and is passionate about creating spaces where men can be real with each other, explore the big questions of life, and come away stronger, clearer, and more grounded.