AN ONLINE BROTHERHOOD FOR MEN

MEN OF PRESENCE

We are a community of men committed to living, leading, and loving from a place of mindful, embodied presence.

It’s time to step outside your comfort zone…

BE BETTER THAN AVERAGE

Ambition, I have come to believe, is the most primal and sacred fundament of our being. To feel ambition and to act upon it is to embrace the unique calling of our souls.
— Steven Pressfield
THE AVERAGE GUYA MAN OF PRESENCE
Craves attentionCan't be ignored
Blends inStands out
Bites his tongueSpeaks his truth
Seeks validationKnows his worth
Projects his bullshitOwns his bullshit
Takes what is givenAsks for what he wants
Falls victim to distractionIs ruthlessly focused
Avoids emotional discomfortInvites emotional discomfort
Lives for tomorrowLives for today

RECLAIM YOUR POWER

It's time to take control of your life and energy.

  • Waiting for change won't create the life you want.

  • Real results come from focused action and commitment.

  • Distractions like TV, alcohol, porn, sex, and social media are holding you back.

Ready to break free from old patterns and rediscover yourself?

This journey isn't easy, but it's worth it. And you don't have to go it alone.

When you're ready to face your challenges head-on and become the man you know you can be, we're here to guide you every step of the way.

When a man’s value is no longer measured by what he does, by his finances or social standing, how does he determine his worth? In our new world, a man’s presence—his depth of awareness—is his most valuable asset. A man’s worth can be found in his depth of being.
— David Deida

LIBERATE YOURSELF

Break free from fear and external validation.

When you stop seeking approval from others, your life transforms:

Reclaim your power: Say 'NO' to what doesn't serve your growth

Embrace independence: Find strength in solitude

Speak your truth: Act with courage in all relationships

Achieve your dreams: Set bold goals and create lasting success

Discover the confidence to shape your life on your own terms.

Ready To Transform Your Life?

Join us if you're prepared to:

  • Break free from unhealthy habits and reclaim control

  • Elevate every aspect of your life - financial, emotional, and personal

  • Rediscover your authentic masculinity and inner strength

Take the first step towards becoming the man you know you can be.

MEN OF PRESENCE: FORGING STRONGER MEN TOGETHER

Join a community where men:

  • Overcome fears and limiting beliefs to unlock true potential

  • Harness the power of authentic masculinity

  • Build integrity and personal strength

  • Develop deep, lasting bonds of brotherhood

Transform yourself in the company of like-minded men.

LET’S GET STARTED

MOP offers men the structure and support they need to grow.

When you join the Men of Presence community you will receive a copy of The 30-Day WORKout, a step-by-step guide to getting started with The Work and navigating the new resources available to you.

  • Men of Presence is an online community of men who are actively doing The Work and striving to become the best version of themselves as leaders, lovers, fathers, and men of unshakeable presence.

    This is a paid membership that offers exclusive access to:

    • The Men of Presence Core Curriculum

    • Additional Resources

    • 30, 90, and 365 Day Challenges

    • Weekly Men's Book Club

    • Monthly Group Calls

    • Online Community

  • When you join the MOP community you will receive immediate access to the Men of Presence Core Curriculum.

    These foundational courses define 'The Work' and will help you to create a strong foundation for personal growth and achievement:

    • Foundations of Emotional Empowerment

    • Foundations of Emotional Intimacy

    • Foundations of Nervous System Regulation

    • Foundations of Masculine & Feminine Polarity

    • Foundations of Attachment Styles

    • Foundations of Deep, Trusting Relationships

    • Foundations of Daily Meditation Practice

    • Foundations of Effective Journaling

    Courses are provided as pre-recorded training videos that you can access at your own pace, and include downloadable PDFs of all workbooks and worksheets.

  • In addition to the Core Curriculum, you will also receive access to the following resources:

    • Amicable Separations (Intro to Collaborative Divorce)

    • How To Be Alone (w/o Being Lonely)

    • Emotional Empowerment for Managers & Executives

    • Recommended Reading for Men

  • Creating new habits can be difficult, which is why we have created a number of 30, 90, and 365-day challenges to provide structure and accountability as you seek to learn new practices and incorporate these new behaviors into your life and your relationships.

    You can do these challenges on your own or find an accountability partner (or two) and embark on doing these challenges as a group.

    Inside the Men of Presence curriculum you will find challenges related to:

    • Abstinence from addictive and compulsive behaviors

    • Journaling & Meditation

    • Engaging in open, honest conversation with others

    • Cold exposure

    • and more

  • The journey to becoming an empowered, masculine man requires exploration and understanding of certain key concepts and ideas.

    Each week you are invited to join us in a live 90-minute book study/discussion (via Zoom) as we make our way through these five books:

    1. The Way of the Superior Man (David Deida)

    2. King, Warrior, Magician, Lover (Robert Moore)

    3. The Courage To Be Disliked (Fumitake Koga)

    4. Turning Pro (Steven Pressfield)

    5. Outwitting The Devil (Napoleon Hill)

  • Every month there will be three live calls hosted by James:

    1. A live 90-minute training call on a specific topic for the month (emotions, intimacy, purpose, polarity, etc.)

    2. A live 60-minute training call with an expert on an important subject (money, sex, relationships, spiritual practices, etc.)

    3. A live 60-minute Q&A and community building call with other men in the community

  • When you join the Men of Presence community, you will gain access to our private Facebook Group as well as our private Telegram channel.

    These tools make it easy to meet other men who are doing The Work and to both give and receive support from other members.

  • When you join the Men of Presence community you will also receive access to The 30-Day WORKout, a step-by-step guide that will walk you through your first month of doing The Work.

    Every few days you will be assigned a new task that will help you to clarify the change(s) you're wanting to make in your life and practice new skills you'll need in order to create the transformation you desire.

    During this time you'll be encouraged to share your progress with the MOP community (in the groups) so that you can meet and receive feedback and support from other men.

  • All of the material in the Men of Presence community is available to you for just $29 per month.

    You can cancel at any time by simply logging into your account and choosing not to renew your monthly subscription.

A master is one who is really there. He has presence. He has a kind of radiance. And you can find it and you can observe it. Sometimes just sit near a hotel or by the side of the road and watch people passing by. Start looking for one thing: can you make a distinction? Most people walk like empty shells - and they are many, they are the majority - but sometimes you come across a person who has a kind of presence. You can observe that he is surrounded by an aura, you can feel that he has magnetism. You may have unknowingly observed sometimes that while you were sitting with a few friends, another person comes and suddenly the whole company becomes alive - as if the coming of this new man infuses you with life. Just a moment before, all was dull, you were sad, you were just dragging, talking - talking rubbish. One has to talk. You were passing time. Then a man or a woman enters and suddenly there is a radiance; everything flares up, everything heightens, everything is turned on. Nobody is off. A man of presence has entered.
— OSHO