MASTERMIND GROUP

THE LOVER’S JOURNEY

We are a community of men committed to self-improvement and the pursuit of extraordinary sexual, emotional, and spiritual intimacy with our partner.

IT’S TIME TO TURN ‘PRO’

“Before we turn pro, our life is dominated by fear and resistance. We’re denying the voice in our heads. We’re denying our calling. We’re denying who we really are. What happens when we turn pro is we stop running from our fears. We turn around and face them.”

— Steven Pressfield

The Amateur

Lives in a state of fear—fear of failure, fear of success, fear of looking foolish, fear of rejection, fear of poverty, fear of loneliness.
Is imprisoned by what he believes he ought to think, how he ought to look, what he ought to do, and who he ought to be.
Craves external validation
Seeks permission before he acts—from a lover or spouse, a parent, a boss, or a figure of authority
Allows addictions and distractions to replace his aspirations
Has a million plans and they all start tomorrow

The Professional

Organizes his days in such a way that he overcomes the fears that have paralyzed him in the past
Has decided to pursue his calling and enter the pain-zone of effort, risk, and exposure
No longer yields to the temptations of distraction and addiction
Is intentional about how he spends his time and with whom he spends it
Lives in the present moment and does not allow himself to slip into fantasies of an idealized past or future
Develops his mindset to overcome resistance and defeat self-sabotaging habits

YOU’RE IN CHARGE

Stop wishing, waiting, and hoping for your relationship to improve.

As a man, it is your masculine responsibility to:

Set the direction of growth in your relationship
Take the lead on resolving tension, conflict, and resentment
Learn how to speak openly and honestly with your partner about what you’re wanting, needing, and feeling

But you’re not alone.

The Lover’s Journey is your home for getting the support you need to overcome the inner resistance (fear, doubt, and shame) that has been holding you back…

…so that you can create the relationship (and life) of your dreams.

BE INSPIRING

Stop living your life vicariously through others.

➔ YOU are responsible for creating the results you want in your life…so why not create something amazing?

➔ Instead of passing the time following and reading about other people’s adventures, why not create a life worth writing a book about?

➔ It’s up to YOU to confront the fear, doubt, and shame that prevents you from showing up more powerfully in your relationship

➔ It’s up to YOU to get the support you need in order to support the changes you want to make and the results you want to create in your life.

“The direction of growth in a relationship is primarily the man’s responsibility.”

— David Deida

Are you one of us?

You want to unlock deeper levels of sexual, emotional, and spiritual intimacy with your partner
You want to avoid the relationship dynamics of your parents and in-laws
You want to feel more confident speaking your truth
You want structure and accountability to help you achieve your goals
You want to optimize your daily habits and behaviors
You are ready to invest in yourself (and your relationship)

Mastermind members include men from various professions, backgrounds, and beliefs.